13 Bravissimo’s Summer Collection

Posted on May 22, 2013 by Sweets

Well, well, well. Bravissimo just released some of their new summer styles, and I don’t want to say that they designed them JUST for me, or anything, but really, let’s look at the evidence:

“Boudoir Beau” in Ivory/Raspberry. 28 E-J, 30-38 DD-K

I’ve been asking for a new colorway of Boudoir Beau ever since I fell in love with the green version, and here’s a sweet Raspberry.

“Candy Bliss”. 28 DD-J, 30-38 DD-K.

A pretty new style with a delicate floral print and sheer/polka dot panels.

“Sweet Bon Bon”. 28-38 DD-J.

Notice a theme yet? Also, [insert customary approval of all things polka-dotted].

“Cherry Fling”. 28 E-J, 30-38 DD-K.

THIS IS BASICALLY MY FAVORITE EVER.

It seems like SOMEONE wants Sweets to buy all the dessert-themed bras ever and pair them with recipes. I see what you’re doing, Bravissimo. I’m onto you. I will not be seduced by your wily tricks.

Except I totally will. Cherry bra, you will be mine.

In all seriousness, I’m increasingly impressed with the quality and creativity of Bravissimo’s own lingerie designs. All of their new-season styles include G+ sizes, and several include J+. Alana is available up to an L cup in a pretty new Aqua shade, Sweet Bon Bon is ~~(I think) their first~~ (as Astrid reminds me below, their second) half-cup up to a J-cup, and the popular Rococo Charm bra has returned in a bright, summery coral. I am a little surprised to see how few options there are for 28 backs over a J cup: Bravissimo only carries two styles, and both are by Panache. I know that demand for 28JJs and 28Ks is probably significantly lower than other sizes, but it would be nice for women who wear those sizes to have options besides white, beige, and black, even if it’s just one option. That concern aside, the summer collection reflects a good balance of styles: half cups, balconettes, and plunges, bright, cheerful colors, and whimsical prints, as well as bra-sized camisole and halter tops in an array of colors, now up to H cups (although still no 28 backs).

Both Bravissimo and Pepperberry seem to really shine when their collections reflect a cohesive theme (as Pepperberry’s 2012 Autumn 1940s-influenced collection did). If the theme of Bravissimo’s Spring release was florals, the theme for Summer is most definitely sweetness. I know it’s not everyone’s cup of tea, but while I wouldn’t want my entire lingerie drawer crammed full of pink and frills, I’m already dreaming of raspberry ice creams, cherry pies, pink meringues, lemon cookies …

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Bravissimo’s full summer collection, including styles from other full-bust brands like Panache, Cleo, and Freya, is available here.

Sweet Nothing Du Jour plus Rapid-Fire Reviews 3/21/13

Posted on March 21, 2013 by Sweets

You know how sometimes you have lots of awesome things going on at once, like, say, TWO catnip mice and a nice long ribbon to play with? And you get kind of overwhelmed, but you’re still having a rad time? Ruby knows. Yikes, I will never say “rad” again. That was weird.

Hey friends. This isn’t a real post, except to share some good things going on in the world and keeping me busy, which, as The Worst March of Them All (weather-wise) drags on, is a good thing.

Big News: I’m currently enrolled in a bra-fit certification program led by Ali Cudby, author of Busted!, which I reviewed last year when I started this blog and absolutely adored. I had the privilege of meeting her at CurveNY, and I had every intention of asking her intelligent, pointed questions about her career, the lingerie industry, consumer empowerment, the importance of bras to a woman’s self-esteem and self-image, and that sort of thing. Instead we talked about Bravissimo and our favorite bras. Whoops. Anyway, she’s lovely, warm, and incredibly knowledgeable, and the course is a wonderful reminder that women come in all shapes, our bra sizes are not set in stone and do not define us as people, and that no matter how we feel about our bodies or what we might be led to believe by the media/our own inner demons, there ARE bras out there for each and every one of us that will make us feel good. I’m really enjoying the opportunity to hone my bra fitting technique and especially to learn how to fit women who aren’t, you know, me.

The FabFit Academy is a new venture designed to improve the fit skills and customer service of boutique owners and employees. As such, it assumes course members have access to actual customers, and the homework assignments require questioning and fitting multiple women each week. As I work a full-time emphatically-non-lingerie job, my free time is dedicated to convincing my poor friends to let me see their boobs.

Speaking of work, I know it’s boring when people are all “oh my gosh, so sorry, work has been CRAZY lately,” but seriously, work has been CRAZY lately. Late nights, weekends, sigh, etc. Anticipate having free time to do laundry/cook real food/blog in two months or so.

When I’m NOT at the office or looking at boobs, I’m in my kitchen. One of my neighbors, a gorgeous, insanely talented, immensely generous woman who’s been my friend pretty much since I moved to New York, is getting married in June and has asked me to make her cake. I am flattered and honored to have been asked, and I’m so excited for her and her fiance. So naturally I, being a fool, chirped “oh of course!”, forgetting that I have shaky hands and usually decorate cakes by swirling the frosting and calling it a day. I’m currently keeping dairy farmers in the New York area afloat while I make sample cakes, curds, and frostings, test my decorating skills, and seek out new recipes. So far my freezer is 2/3 full, I’m two cakes and two lemon curds in, and I have only messed up one of each. Yep, I’m professional. Also, can I borrow ten dozen eggs and eighty pounds of sugar?

You know how at least once a year you run out of everything at once, and you have to restock shampoo, conditioner, soap, lotion, that face wash you’re convinced is overpriced nonsense, deodorant, razor blades, Q-tips, mascara, foundation, chapstick, tampons, hairspray, toothpaste, and nail polish remover in one fell swoop, and it leaves you financially shell-shocked and horrified and you resolve to stop grooming forever, but then it’s SO NICE having real shampoo instead of a watered-down bottle and real mascara instead of ditto? I just replaced a bunch of bras that were super, incredibly tired, and while I still feel sort of “gah you just had to buy a new computer and you still have to buy 1,302 sticks of butter before June, slow your roll,” oh MAN are these new bras nice.

Rapid-Fire Reviews:

Starburst Bra by Bravissimo

Starburst Bra by Bravissimo. £29.00, available in sizes 28-38 DD-J (UK). Matching brief and thong, sizes XS-2XL.

Hot damn, I’ve been looking for a bra like this for a long time now. Bravissimo’s own brand bras seem to suit me really, really well. First Lola Luxe, then Boudoir Beau (pretty please more colors, Bravissimo?), and now this cutie, a star-spangled, unpadded plunge bra. The band closes with three sets of three hooks-and-eyes, and that extra depth gives nice, smooth support. The shape is lovely and rounded, the wires aren’t too wide-set, and there’s enough room in the top of the cup that the plunging neckline doesn’t cut into my full breasts. It’s not a super-push-up bra, but I’d say it’s a fair cross between Freya’s Deco and Panache’s Tango plunge in terms of cleavage– work appropriate so that it won’t show under a button-down or V-neck, but sassy enough for a fun night out. I wish the stars were slightly bigger, bolder, and starrier, but that’s me; others may appreciate the print’s smaller scale.

Marcie by Cleo

"Marci" by Cleo. Available in sizes 28-38 D-J (UK), briefs sizes 8-18 (UK). Prices vary.

“Marcie” by Cleo. Available in sizes 28-38 D-J (UK), briefs sizes 8-18 (UK). Prices vary.

I don’t have much to add except it’s just as awesome as the last one. Fabulous color, lovely round, uplifted shape, good for “perky” full boobs, comfy straps, dots, ruffles– what’s not to like? This shape works incredible well for me, and I love having a mesh bra that’s supportive yet lightweight and cute. I’m going to try to treat this one a little nicer than my last one and maybe not wear it pole dancing, just to see if I can make it last longer. I’m hesitating on getting the matching briefs, as freaking adorable as they are, just because they are SO dang low-cut they keep wanting to slip right off my hips. I may size up to see if it fixes the problem; but I do wish the rise were 2-3 inches higher.

Jasmine by Panache Superbra

“Jasmine” by Panache Superbra, available in sizes 30-38 D-K (UK). Matching brief sizes 8-18 (UK). Price varies.

I had heard very, very good things about this bra, and I loved the bird print for Fall/Winter 2012, so when it came time to choose a new “everyday” bra, I decided to try out the pretty new floral print. Jasmine is very similar to Panache’s classic “Andorra” bra, which I like . . . okay. Both the plunge and full-cup versions of Andorra sit a little strangely on me, but I really, REALLY like the Jasmine. The bottom of the cup is laminated for sturdy support, while the top of the cup features the same soft stretch lace as the Andorra, which is so user-friendly for monthly boob fluctuations. The band closes with three sets of three hooks and eyes, and it just doesn’t budge– I wore it all day Saturday to go wedding-dress shopping with my friend, and I felt comfortable, supported, and pretty (the matching briefs are lovely and comfy). A+, would buy again, etc. Panache and I didn’t use to get along, but all of a sudden they’ve become my go-to brands for a good fit and pretty designs.

How are YOU? What’s new in your world? What is UP with all this rain/snow nonsense? Anyone else super behind on TV?

It’s okay Ruby. You’ll catch up on Downton Abbey one day.

What a Good Fitting Experience Should Be Like

Posted on January 22, 2013 by Sweets

How I Will Run the First American Bravissimo, Because Obviously They’d Just Let an Internet Stranger Run the First Overseas Expansion of their Baby

There has been a lot of internet chatter lately about the new Lifetime series Double Divas, which purports to educate American women about good fit, bra sizes, and breast health, while following the antics of the store’s personality-rich owners. I know I should watch it, y’all, but even though my office was closed on Monday, I just couldn’t bring myself to do it.*** I’m not sure why. Maybe because I’ve been burned before by stores that claimed they’d change my life? Maybe I was turned off by the over-the-top Southern! Wackiness! Shtick! that saturated the preview clips I watched online? Maybe because I don’t care for reality shows in general? Mostly, though, I didn’t want to watch it because of what I read from 1) commenters on the Lifetime site who watched the show and 2) other, more intrepid bloggers who had thoughts to share.

***N.B. I know it’s deeply unfair to judge a show and a store without even watching said show, but I want to share some of the discussion I’ve read and use it as a jumping-off point to talk about what to expect from a supportive lingerie boutique. If/when I do watch the show, I will share a review and continue the discussion.

I’m not going to delve too deeply into the comments, because internet comment sections stress me out, but I’ll just say that I did NOT see a lot of comments that said “I now love my breasts,” “I feel confident about fitting my boobs,” “I know now that there is nothing ‘wrong’ with my boobs,” “I feel pretty,” or “thanks for helping me figure out what I like!”

After reading Fussy Busty’s, The Lingerie Addict’s, and Hourglassy’s reviews, I REALLY didn’t want to watch the show. I think the store owners are certainly filling a market void– based on the clips I’ve seen, they stock many brands I love and recommend: Freya, Elomi, Parfait, Love Claudette, Cleo, and others, and they are spreading the word that the boob alphabet doesn’t end at D, or even DDD. One of the store’s owners even works to build and sew garments for customers who can’t find something in their size in stock, which is really, really wonderful and would be fun to see more of. The fact remains, however, that there is nothing, NOTHING, that excuses store owners/employees who body-snark their customers. It is NEVER acceptable to use “Whoa,” “gross,” “HUUUUGE,” “tiny,” and other loaded words to describe a person’s appearance or boobs. All women deserve a welcoming, judgment-free lingerie shopping experience. Men deserve it too: I was appalled to hear that one of the store’s employees mocked “moobies” during one episode. I’m sorry, I have no patience with that shit. I have been made to feel ugly, weird, inappropriate, wrong, and abnormal because of my breasts, and I’m a woman. I cannot imagine how the emotional pain and shame are compounded if you’re a man who’s seeking the same support I do. Making fun of “man-boobs” shows an extreme lack of empathy, and it’s totally unacceptable.

Congratulations, dumb-fuck lingerie boutique. You just lost every customer with a brain. (Thanks to Busts4Justice for naming and shaming)

This sign is NOT from Double Divas, but nevertheless, congratulations, other dumb-fuck lingerie boutique. You just lost every customer with a brain. (Thanks to Busts4Justice for naming and shaming)

Enough of that nonsense. I thought it would be nice to address what a really, really good, even exemplary fitting experience would be like. I haven’t had a lot of them in New York City, unfortunately. My very first fitting was at Nordstrom shortly after graduating from college, and it was wonderful, positive, reassuring, and helpful. My experiences in NYC have been . . . stressful. The stores are small, the sales staff are either overly aggressive or absent, there’s a sense of no-nonsense authoritarianism, and, my biggest pet peeve, you can’t SEE the damn lingerie. It’s all tucked away in boxes and backstock, and unless you know what to ask for, you might never see anything beyond 2 or 3 styles. As frustrating as this is to me, a lingerie obsessive, I can’t imagine how bewildering it must be to someone who’s just starting out on her lingerie/boob-loving journey. So this is what I, Sweets, would like to find in a bra-shopping experience, and I’d love to hear what others think!

A dressing room at Faire Frou Frou in Studio City, California. Photograph by MakingMagique.com

You, the customer, are welcomed to the store in a friendly way. (Note to retailers: Someone who jumps on me when I walk in and chirps “DID YOU KNOW YOU’RE PROBABLY WEARING THE WRONG SIZE?!?!” tells me she isn’t invested in me as a customer. She hasn’t even asked me why I’m there yet. She is invested in spouting the party line, the advertising rhetoric, the gimmick that will make a sale. She doesn’t want me to learn to love and fit my boobs; she wants to sell me a bra and make me keep coming back to her. It’s the single biggest turn-off to me, right up there with D+ bras that only come in beige and black and small-cup bras that only come with three inches of padding.)
The store is clean, attractive, well laid-out, bright, accessible to those with disabilities, and welcoming to nursing mothers. Dressing rooms and restrooms are clean, well-lit, and private. There is room for your shopping bags, strollers, and small children.
There are lots of racks or displays showing available styles and products. You can browse and choose and compare products on your own if you want to.
Derriere de Soie in Charlottesville, VA
A store associate will politely ask you if you have any questions. If you say you’d like to be fitted, she will offer to make you an appointment or will offer to assist you.
You will be guided to a private, flatteringly-lit, comfortable dressing room, with a seat and hooks for your bags and belongings.
The fitter will ask you to remove your shirt if you’re comfortable doing so, and she will ask you some questions about the bra you’re already wearing:
- What size is it?
- How old is it?
- What do you like about it?
- What do you dislike about it?
- How does this bra make you feel?
If you’ve never been fitted, the fitter will, in a non-authoritarian, non-judgmental manner, explain how a new bra should fit:
- band firm without digging, lying horizontally across back, fastened on loosest hook
- straps adjusted to support and smooth the cup, but not so tight that they dig into shoulders
- cup completely encasing breast tissue, including under, around, and over the breast. Center front lies flush against sternum. No double-boob or wrinkling in the cup.
She will show you if there are any signs that your current bra may not be the best fit or may be worn out, and offer to bring you some new bras to try on. She will say “I think we may be able to find a better fit” instead of “you’re doing it wrong.”
Before she leaves to get some bras, she will ask you if there is a particular style or look or feel that interests you.
Bravissimo, London.
When you find a new bra that you think fits, she will ask if she can see it.
She will ask you what you think of it and how you feel.
She will point out to you why the fit is improved, and tell you how to determine a good fit for yourself in the future.
She will listen to you if you still feel unsatisfied or uncomfortable, and she will either reassure you (wearing the right band size can feel strange if you’ve gotten used to the wrong one, and having cup size shock if you’ve been wearing the wrong cup size is totally understandable) or offer other products.
She will NEVER tell you that your size is set in stone, that your boobs are wrong, or that you should make the best of what you’ve got, and she will never force you to buy a bra or set or shape you don’t love. She will certainly never dream of saying “well, you need a G, but we don’t carry G cups, why don’t you try an F?” This is disingenuous and misleading, and she’d be trying to force you to buy something that isn’t right for you. What kind of way is that to keep a customer? She will also never fit you into a band that’s too loose for you unless the store offers free alterations to ensure a good fit and long bra life.
A Sophisticated Pair. Burlington, North Carolina.
She will offer to bring you as many different sizes/styles as are available to you, and she will respect any budget concerns you may have.
She will be understanding if you decide not to purchase anything that day.
She will be honest if a particular bra isn’t made in your size, and she will suggest alternatives, even if that means suggesting another retailer.
She will be aware of any shyness, embarrassment, or shame that women may feel about their breasts or breast-related health issues, and she will be sensitive and understanding.
She will be upfront about the store’s return/alteration/shipping policy.
She will thank you for visiting the store and cheerfully wish you a pleasant day.

If you do not find this experience in a store, and/or you leave feeling bummed out, ashamed, or disappointed, do not go back to that store. Until the perfect experience is available, we have the internet.

Also, champagne and sweets in the dressing rooms would go over SWELL, although I understand we live in a sadly imperfect world.

Sweet Nothing Du Jour: 1/16/13 Tutti Rouge Lingerie

Posted on January 16, 2013 by Sweets

Tutti Rouge isn’t even available for sale yet, so it’s still a sweet nothing, a dream, a wish, a desire, instead of a full-blown reality, but HOLY PANTS, Y’ALL.

My god, they’re even baking. IT’S LIKE THEY SEE INTO MY SOUL.

Tutti Rouge is a new full-bust line launching in 2013. Bras will be available in sizes 28-38 DD-HH (UK), and I believe accessories will be available in sizes XS-XL. I also believe that purple/polka dot/frilly suspender belt number has my name on it.

Adorable.

I mean, yes, okay, the first collection is a little, shall we say, sweet. It is VERY girly and VERY frilly and VERY pretty and obviously I LOVE IT ALL. I also really appreciate such a good size range for a brand-new collection. There are quite a few women who get left out when a new line launches in D-G cup sizes, and I hope such an ambitious launch bodes well for possible size expansions in future seasons. It’s also lovely that they’re launching with 28-backs, both because they’re sorely needed, and also because I can really see this line appealing to younger customers. How great would it be to be a full-bust teenager with cute, supportive lingerie with you from the very beginning?

I’ll take all of these. Also the cake.

There doesn’t seem to be an official site yet, but based on what I’ve gleaned from trade journals, Twitter, and youtube, there will be a solid mix of seamed and padded/molded bras, and Bravissimo will be stocking Tutti Rouge in April for their summer collection!

For more sneak peeks, check out these cute videos for the 2013 campaigns:

I can’t wait to see more of this fun new addition to the full-bust market! What do you think of the designs?

Review: Boudoir Beau by Bravissimo

Posted on January 11, 2013 by Sweets

“Boudoir Beau” Bra by Bravissimo (exclusive) in Emerald (other colors available). Sizes 28-38 DD-K. £30.00. Shorts (£17.00), Thong (£15.00) available in sizes XS-2XL.

I included this in my Full-Bust Holiday picks, and about three days later realized I really, really, really wanted it. I “needed” a new black lace bra, I wanted a new balconette bra that gave a rounded shape and good support, and I adored the bright kelly/emerald green. So Christmas present to me!

Materials/Quality:

Close-up of the lace overlay. Once again, Sweets’ smartphone photography skills put everyone to SHAME.

This is only the second Bravissimo own-brand bra I’ve kept, but I’ve been pretty consistently impressed with the quality of the Bravissimo label, even while I’ve struggled to figure out the fit. The lace is already comfortable, and I imagine it will soften even further with wear. There is a lush, puffy bow (hence the “beau” in the name) between the cups, the straps are fully adjustable, and my size closes with three sets of three hooks and eyes, which I’m coming to realize is just so dang COMFORTABLE. The details continue on to the adorable briefs, which are topped with a matching bow at the back. I tried on a Boudoir Beau set when the style was first introduced a few years ago, and my recollection was that the material was a little stretchy and flimsy. That is not the case at all now: I feel comfortable and firmly supported, and the band has so far retained its support through a month of wears and washing. Note that in certain cup sizes the top of the cup is not sheer lace as pictured on the catalogue model; it’s lined with a black mesh panel for extra support.

Appearance:

That green, y’all. I used to have a shirtdress that color that made me feel like the prettiest girl in the world. I love, love, love that green. I want a ballgown with a bustle and train in that color green. When I win an Oscar/Nobel Prize for Boobular Goodness, I will wear said ballgown. I was a little disappointed to see that in my size the proportion of black-to-green is much larger than it appears on the model. The top part of the cup kind of takes over, especially taking into account the mesh panel, which gives wonderful support but severely cuts down on the delicacy and frilliness of the style. For some, that might be a good thing, but for me, it was a bit of a bummer.

Fit/Shape:

I am so, so, so glad to have this bra in my current rotation. The shape is rounded, but not as orb-like as the perfect spheres my beloved Cleo bras give me. It’s a bit more natural shape, but no less uplifted. Cheryl over at Invest in Your Chest had a great post up recently (“Getting to the Root of the Problem“) examining how differently-constructed fit, and she pointed out the difference between bras that really lift from the root of the breast versus encircling and cradling the breast without a ton of lift. To me, the Boudoir Beau lifts and supports as beautifully as the more dramatic root-lifting bras, yet offers the more natural look of a traditional balconette bra. And it is indeed a balconette: the center wire comes up quite a bit higher than a plunge bra would, so it’s not for every neckline. After my good luck with the fit of the Lola Luxe Basque, I ordered the same size here (same band as what I wear in Panache/Cleo/Fantasie, but one cup size larger). I was worried I might find the band a bit loose, but it runs very true-to-size, which is good news for women who prefer firm bands.

This view of the back shows off the brief’s cute bow and sheer back with horizontal seam, as well as the close-set wires at the bra’s center gore.

I ordered the matching briefs (thongs are stupid and I hate them for all-day wear), but, having learned my lesson with the Lola Luxe, I ordered the next size down (same size as Freya, one size down from Cleo), and they fit like a dream. I can’t be certain, but I think when I tried the Boudoir Beau set a few years ago the briefs lacked the top back panel they have now, and as such were ludicrously, ridiculously low-cut and uncomfortable. The problem is fixed now, and I think the horizontal seam standing out against the sheer fabric is rather sexy!

Verdict:

I haven’t had this set very long, but it’s quickly becoming one of my favorites. It’s extremely comfortable for all-day wear, gives me a flattering shape under clothes, requires little-to-no adjusting throughout the day, and, despite the seams and lace on the cup, has a pretty low profile under knit tops. My breasts are fairly full on both top and bottom, and the cup shape, center gore width, and wire placement feel like they were made for me. I am crossing my fingers for a pretty new color in Bravissimo’s early Spring collection (launching next week!). While not an absolute bargain, the price is beyond reasonable, working out to around $46.00 for the bra and $20.00 for the briefs. Considering that many full-bust boutiques in NYC have told me that I should be spending $200/bra (LUDICROUS HIGHWAY ROBBERY), I am more than happy to pay full-price for such a great bra. Highly recommended, more like this please!

Reviews: Full-Bust Dresses From Pepperberry

Posted on December 5, 2012 by Sweets

The last time I talked about Pepperberry on Sweet Nothings, I wasn’t very positive. I wanted to be! I love Bravissimo and everything they stand for, and I was so excited to hear about the launch of Pepperberry, Bravissimo’s sister brand offering a full range of clothing for full-bust figures. As the first few seasons came and went, however, very few of the options really wowed me. On one level, I didn’t love a lot of the designs. I liked some of them, sure, but I’m a very, very picky shopper, and I wanted to find something I loved that also happened to fit me well. Pepperberry is in a bit of bind because their customer base is “full-bust women who ordinarily wear Misses-sized clothing but who need more room in the bust.” Those women might be older, younger, students, professionals, teachers, stay-at-home mothers, artists, engineers, writers, chefs . . . you see where I’m going. In trying to offer something to please everyone, there were a few collections that felt too staid or safe, even dull. There were also some patterning, supply, quality, and consistency issues that took a few seasons to work out and that didn’t begin to justify the prices. So while I tried a few things every year or so, the dread of having to pay return postage eventually put me off.

Chiffon Spot Blouse and Pleated Pencil Skirt. Blouse available in sizes 08-18 Curvy, Really Curvy, and Super Curvy. £45.00 (about $72.00 USD). Skirt available in sizes 08-18 (UK). £45.00 (about $72.00 USD)

Chiffon Spot Blouse and Pleated Pencil Skirt. Blouse available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy, Really Curvy, and Super Curvy. £45.00 (about $72.00 USD). Skirt available in sizes 08-18 (UK). £45.00 (about $72.00 USD)

With their 2012 Autumn/Winter collections, I feel like Pepperberry has really proved that they DO listen to customer feedback. Sizing across the board has been more consistent, the quality has skyrocketed, and each collection has a distinct, unified aesthetic point-of-view. For Autumn, many of the pieces were shot on the platform of a steam railway station, and the models, with their curled and rolled hair and neutral makeup, evoke a nostalgic, 1940s feel. For Winter, Pepperberry reached slightly further back into the past, with Art Deco beading and silhouettes that suggest the 1920s-30s and “Downton Abbey”.

Beaded Flapper Dress, available in sizes 08-18 (UK), Curvy, Really, and Super Curvy. £99.00 (about $158.56 USD)

In addition to these mini “historical” collections, each season’s release has featured some wardrobe staples like button-down shirts, fitted tees, and blazers, as well as a few more youthful dresses. They’ve done away with some of the stranger embellishments on the professional clothes (past collections used studs and sequins . . . not good) and have focused more on tailored details like pleats, seaming, and necklines, as well as improved fabric content. Popular styles have been re-ordered in new colors, and some styles are now available in Super Duper Curvy sizes in response to customer demand (although more would be nice!). While the prices are by no means bargains, the attention to detail and improved fit and fabric quality make them much more reasonable.

For my recent work trip to Bangkok we were given fairly strict dress code suggestions. While I’m a pretty conservative dresser anyway, some of the guidelines threw me for a loop: covered shoulders, knee-length or longer skirts, and black or otherwise neutral shoes. In addition, it was suggested that we avoid certain colors, including red, blue, and yellow. Y’all, I LIVE in navy blue and red. That is what is in my wardrobe. Any skirts/dresses that did meet the knee-length or longer requirement were almost certainly red or blue or both. Furthermore, I owned not a single pair of black pumps or black flats, and many of my tops and dresses are sleeveless, to allow for layering in super air-conditioned office buildings. I had some major, frantic shopping to do, and the desperation (I had about three weeks’ notice to prepare for the trip) convinced me to take a chance on another Pepperberry order.

Abstract Jersey Print Dress. Available in Sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy. £55.00 (about $88 USD).

After checking out UK customers’ pictures on Pepperberry’s Facebook page, I chose the Abstract Jersey Print Dress. The shape, bow detail, and ruched sleeves appealed to my love of feminine dresses, while the modest neckline, below-the-knee length, and conservative color and print met all the criteria for my trip. I’ve gained a bit of weight since the last dress I ordered and kept from Pepperberry, so I chose to go up a dress size and keep the same curvy size. Fortunately, the dress arrived the day before I was due to leave, and I got home and tried it on immediately.

I was deeply impressed right off the bat by the improved quality. The last jersey dresses I’d tried from Pepperberry had felt thin, almost scratchy, and clingy. This dress, on the other hand, hangs beautifully without clinging, there’s no polyester sheen to the fabric, and it feels much softer and more comfortable. It’s a heavy-weight jersey that will be suitable for wear year-round. I wore it in the 90-degree F. heat in Bangkok, and I layered it over tights under a puffy coat in cold New York. There’s no static cling, and it doesn’t stick to my tights. A+, Pepperberry.

Fit-wise, I should have stuck with my old dress size and just gone up a curviness size. The dress fits, but some of the underbust detailing does ride up a bit onto my bust. My waist isn’t as defined as it could be, and consequently it’s not the most slimming dress I own. However, I feel lovely wearing it, and I’ve gotten compliments every time. In a perfect world I’d exchange it, but I’m more than happy with a pretty-close fit instead of a perfect one.

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If nothing else, the Bangkok wardrobe requirements really opened my eyes to some massive holes in my wardrobe, and they forced me to admit that some of my clothes are worn-out, falling apart, or ill-fitting. I managed to find some great staple pieces for bargain prices at mass-market retailers like the Gap (thank you for making Tall pencil skirts, the Gap), but I decided to give Pepperberry another shot to invest in some versatile, well-fitting, easily-accessorized dresses to get me through the winter. I knew I wanted at least one “little black dress” that could go from work to a party with a change of shoes, jewelry, hair, and makeup, and I also wanted a slightly less formal dress that could go from work to more casual weekend events. After a lot of deliberation, including reminding myself that no, I really don’t need strapless party dresses, I chose the Ponti Skater Dress, the Stripe Skirt Dress, and the Drape Jersey Dress to go with my order of the Lola Luxe Basque from Bravissimo (reviewed here).

Ponti Skater Dress. Available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy. £59.00 (about $94.50 USD)

I was most excited about the Ponti Skater Dress, so I tried that one on first. I’ve always been a bit of a girly-girl, and I love me a fuller skirt and well-defined waist. This time I ordered one dress-size smaller and one curvy-size larger than the Abstract Print Jersey Dress, and the fit is perfect. PERFECT. I’m so used to tugging and adjusting clothing that wrinkles or gapes that it takes me aback when something fits so nicely. There is no straining over the bust and no pulling across the back, just smooth, clean lines that flatter my figure. The skirt hits me where it hits the model, just over the knee, and the neckline is modest without being frumpy. There’s a button detail at the elbow and a wide waistband that sits right at my natural waist. The jersey is once again of excellent quality, and the dress is fully lined (and machine-washable!) with a side zip. This one will probably be too warm for Summer wear, but it’s going to be great for Fall, Winter, and Spring. I’ll note that the sleeves are slimmer-fitting on me than they are on the model, and I don’t have particularly full upper arms, so it’s something to bear in mind if that tends to be a fit issue for you. Overall, this is a great, versatile dress, and I’d love to see it in more colors (green or red or polka dots!).

Striped Skirt Dress. Available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy. £69.00 (about $110.50 USD)

Stripe Skirt Dress. Available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy. £69.00 (about $110.50 USD)

This was my wild card purchase, as it takes me a bit outside my comfort zone. I’ve never loved the way I looked in “wiggle”-style or body-con dresses, but since only the top portion of the dress is jersey, and the rest is woven, I thought I might find it more comfortable, and I also hoped that the horizontal stripes might offer some balance to my fuller-on-top figure. While I was correct on those points, I was let down by a few fit issues. First, the skirt is significantly shorter on me than it is on the model, by a good three-to-four inches, like everything from that last orange-red stripe down is missing. It really throws the proportions of the dress off and affects the otherwise classic silhouette. Secondly, the side zipper sticks part of the way up, and no amount of tugging or inspecting will make it budge, even though the fit through the bust is otherwise excellent. Finally, that hem is TIGHT. I mean, super tight. I could barely tug it past my bust when pulling the dress on overhead. Once the dress was on, I loved the way it looked. My waist looked tiny, my hips looked lovely and curvy, and the neckline was flattering. And then I tried to sit down in it. I wonder if the skirt was the proper length whether it would have been less excruciatingly tight when I bent to sit, but since it’s short, the hem rides up to my thighs and strains uncomfortably. Standing, though, the fit around my hips is fine, even generous. It’s weird, and it’s a shame, because I thought this would be a fun addition to my wardrobe, but unfortunately it’s going back.

Drape Jersey Dress. Available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy. £55.00 (about $88.09 USD)

There are a few nice black dresses currently available at Pepperberry, but I knew I really wanted to find a dress that read a little more grown-up, a little more womanly, and a little sexier than anything in my current wardrobe. Again, this silhouette usually gives me pause, but the slight draping of the skirt and the promise of a mesh lining under the jersey convinced me to give this a try, and I AM SO GLAD I DID. Once again the quality of the jersey is much improved from past seasons, the neckline is flattering (and deeper than that of the Abstract Jersey Print Dress, so a plunge bra will be de rigueur), and the length is perfect– right at my knees. It feels a little strange to pull on because the mesh lining is much tighter than the jersey overlayer, but the lining is tight for a reason. It acts like a built-in slip and provides some smoothing under the jersey so that it doesn’t outline or cling to, say, the line of your bra or your knickers. It’s a great construction choice that pays off really, really well. I’m now sad I missed out on the red version from earlier this year, but I hope this becomes one of Pepperberry’s recurring styles. I can see myself pairing it with boots and a scarf for work, and slipping into heels and sparkly earrings for a night out.

Has anyone else tried any of Pepperberry’s A/W 2012 collections? What do you think? If had my druthers, I would have liked to have seen an elegant, classic, structured black strapless dress with a straight skirt (New Year’s Eve!), and I was a little surprised that there wasn’t a single long evening dress available. That being said, I thought they made great choices this season, and I hope the Spring brings more treasures! Also, some coats, jackets, and sweaters are currently on sale, so if you’re feeling winter’s chill you should definitely check them out!

Reminder: Any item I review on Sweet Nothings, unless otherwise specified, is something I bought for myself, and all opinions are my own. Policies.

Review: Lola Luxe Basque by Bravissimo

Posted on December 2, 2012 by Sweets

Bravissimo, light of my life, the store that taught me about full-bust sizing and that pretty bras over a D-cup exist, recently introduced the first ever basque that goes up to a (UK) K-cup. The Lola Luxe Basque appeared for the first time last winter in a pretty black/teal colorway (select sizes still available) to very positive reviews, and Bravissimo released what I presume is the continuity version this Fall in a basic-but-sexy black. Bravissimo really listened to the enthusiastic customer feedback by reintroducing the style, and they also adjusted the design so that the suspenders are now detachable, which was one of the sole customer complaints about the original version. I was glad to see that the basque was here to stay, but the black didn’t really grab my attention.

Lola Luxe Basque in Black by Bravissimo

For winter, however, Bravissimo has released a lovely Blackberry shade with hot pink trim, and somehow the basque and matching brief found their way into an exchange order I placed with Pepperberry, Bravissimo’s full-bust clothing company (reviews, glowing, are forthcoming).

Lola Luxe Basque in Blackberry by Bravissimo

Bravissimo accidentally sent my exchange order to my apartment instead of my usual shipping address, which meant that even though it arrived Wednesday, I couldn’t pick it up until Saturday. I’m always nervous about ordering new items from overseas and having to guess my sizes, so by the time I got the box home Saturday morning after an hour-long wait at the post office my anticipation was at a fever pitch. It was handsomely rewarded.

Terrible Kitten is terrible.

In a nutshell, I think Bravissimo knocked it out of the park on this one. The quality, fit, comfort, shape, style, and color are all perfect, and I don’t say that lightly. I wasn’t sure about the berry/pink combination in the catalogue shot, but I love it in person. The shade is incredibly flattering to my coloring (very pale skin, almost-black hair). It’s dark and elegant while still being warm and sensual. After reading reviews on the Bravissimo website, I ordered my usual band size, but I went up a cup size from what I normally wear in, say, Freya or Panache. I suspect I might be in-between sizes in this item, as the cups are ever-so-slightly roomy, but I’d rather they were roomy than ever-so-slightly small. The fit through the body is outstanding. There is no digging or pinching, and it provides a gorgeously smooth line across the back, which is great for clinging dresses. The only other basque I’ve ever worn is Masquerade’s older Antoinette basque (reviewed here), and while I love it, I think the Lola Luxe improves on it in two important ways.

A close-up of the beautiful bow embroidery detail. The top part of the cups is sheer, but the bottom is lined, and (real talk) it gives very good nipple coverage.

First, the suspenders. There is something so womanly, sophisticated, and sexy about a complete lingerie ensemble. A basque feels glamorous and grown-up, and stockings really complete the look (tights would just look kind of strange worn over or under it). Secondly, the cut of the Lola Luxe is much more hourglass-friendly than the Antoinette, which is cut straight across the bottom. Lola has a curved hem that cuts up higher in the rear and over the hips to allow for a figure’s curves without digging into them. The bones are softer and more flexible than the Antoinette’s, and they seem to retain their shape better (in the Antoinette, I’ve found that if the bones bend when I move, they tend to stay bent and dig into me). In Lola Luxe, the bones pop back into place much more readily, and the unlined mesh bodice smooths and gently shapes. If I had to choose a piece of shapewear for a full-busted lady, I’d recommend this in a heartbeat. A smooth line under clothes that makes me feel fabulously pretty (and really surprisingly comfortable) instead of smooshed and squished? Absolutely.

A back view. There is a tiny pink bow on the back of the briefs, the basque closes with three sets of twelve hooks-and-eyes, and the back is cut slightly higher and the suspenders slightly longer than the front, to accommodate the curve of the rear and keep stockings secure and level. I love Bravissimo’s attention to detail on this set.

In the briefs, I also chose a size up from what I wear in Freya, which I think may have been a mistake. They are just a bit loose, but not enough that I think they’ll fall off. If push comes to shove I’ll take the side seams in a bit, but I was pleased to notice that they’re cut a bit higher than some of Bravissimo’s earliest own-brand briefs were, a welcome improvement.

Overall, I’m thrilled to add this staggeringly pretty piece to my lingerie wardrobe. The fit and shape of the cups is lovely and natural without being too “pointy”, the basque itself is comfortable and flattering, the detachable suspenders allow me to wear it with or without stockings as I choose, and it doubles as shapewear if I’m looking for a smooth silhouette under clinging clothes. Aesthetically, I really, really dig how feminine it is without being precious or froofy. There’s nothing wrong with froofy (see: Froofy robe, my unending quest for), of course, but I like that this piece is sexy without jumping immediately to black, light pink, or red. The bow embroidery recalls the satin ribbons laced through undergarments in the late 19th/early 20th centuries, and of course the lovely hourglass shape it provides makes me feel like some Victorian grande dame. Maybe one who wore dresses like this (House of Worth, naturally, c. 1880s).

Worth purple silk velvet gown

If you’re a full-bust lady who wants the look of a corset with the comfort and support of a bra, Lola is for you. I know I’ll be wearing it under some of my holiday outfits soon!

Lola Luxe by Bravissimo (exclusive)
Available in sizes 30-38 DD-K (UK sizing) £50.00 (about $80 USD)
Brief, Thong available in sizes S-2XL £14.00-16.00 (about $22-25 USD)

Brand Introduction: Freya

Posted on September 23, 2012 by Sweets

For those of us who know our bra sizes better than our social security numbers, Freya is nothing new, but for many women, particularly in North America, who are just getting to know their full-bust sizes, Freya’s is the first friendly face they’ll meet. While Freya may not be for everyone, I want to share the brand with you because 1) it’s widely available in North America now, 2) it’s moderately priced (generally), and 3) Freya really paved the way for many of the beautiful, varied full-bust companies on the market today.

Lots of Styles

“Deco” molded plunge bra, available in black and beige as well as seasonal colors. Sizes 28-38 B-GG (some exceptions).

Being an internationally recognized leader in the full-bust market, Freya has the resources to offer many, many different styles over the course of a year. On average, around 20+ new styles hit the market every season, including swim, lounge, lingerie, and athletic wear.

Clockwise from top left: Active, Lingerie, Lounge, Maternity, Swim

Freya offers lots of different shapes, too: padded half-cup, seamed balconette, molded plunge (the enormously popular Deco bra), soft cup, nursing, sports, and strapless bras as well as bikinis, tankinis, and full-length swimsuits, so there’s a chance that even if one shape isn’t your cup of tea, Freya may offer another shape that works for you. Last year they introduced a longline style which returns this year in multiple prints. Some bras are padded, some are sheer, some are opaque, some are frilly, some are basic, so you have a great chance of finding underwear to suit your needs and tastes. Freya will be launching some pretty shapewear next spring, and Freya and sister brands Elomi, Huit, Fauve, Fantasie, and Goddess offer beautiful, colorful options for a range of shapes, sizes, styles, and budgets.

Lots of Sizes (sometimes)

Freya was one of the first labels to offer K-cups and 28-backs, and they should be applauded. Competitive labels have expanded their size ranges in order to keep up, which means more options for everyone. However, sometimes there are weirdly arbitrary sizing black holes. Some bras start at C-cups, others at D, 28 bands frequently aren’t available in the full cup-size spectrum, the athletic and sleepwear ranges don’t go to K cups, and some other styles arbitrarily stop at G or GG instead of extending up to the full GG-K range (particularly in larger band sizes– boo). Many women are waiting for Freya to adapt the Deco bra for larger cup sizes, and I am baffled as to why the longline bras can’t go higher than a G. If it’s because the longline bras feature the padded half-cup shape, then make it an unlined balconette longline bra! Hell, I’d prefer it unlined. A longline version of the Arabella range would knock my socks off.

Right? Wouldn’t this make a super-sexy longline bra?

Holy crap, you guys, I am a design genius! Freya, get on that: I will buy the hell out of it. A longline bra with its six hooks feels like such a blessing to so many full-busted women, since, as we know, support comes from the band. I know that the design, construction, and, well, architecture of larger cup sizes is more challenging and more time-consuming, but women who wear these sizes often want supportive sleepwear and sports bras most of all, and there’s currently a huge hole in the market.

Lots of Accessories

I’ve made my feelings on matching sets known before: I love them, I crave them, I feel so pretty in them. Freya usually offers at least two, if not more, coordinating knickers (and occasionally suspenders) for each of their bras and coordinating bottoms for each of their bikinis and tankinis. As an avowed thong-hater, I love this, because I can build lingerie ensembles of my choosing, with pieces that I know flatter me and feel the most comfortable.

Some of the accessories available in the following ranges: Pier (swim), Gem, Ashlee, Patsy.

Lots of Color

While my first Freya bra was a fairly basic black (“Pollyanna”, I know I keep harping on it but RIP I miss you), the first thing that made me notice the brand was color. Again, the full-bust landscape has changed dramatically in the last five years, and brands like Cleo, Miss Mandalay, Parfait, Claudette, Curveturiere, and others feature bright, bold, on-trend colors and a sophisticated design approach, but when I first started figuring out how to fit my breasts, my only point of reference was your average US department store, where my options were beige, black, and white, if they carried my size at all. Freya bras, on the other hand, came in reds and pinks and greens and blues and deep purples, and they were trimmed with lace and contrasting bows and ruffles. The designs were interesting, the colors popped, and the whole feel overall was so much more youthful, sexy, and fun than the beige minimizer bras I’d turned to for years.

Some of the many, many colorful lingerie pieces released over the last few years.

Lots of Print

Polka dots. Bows. Flowers. Tattoos. Flamingos. Russian dolls. Feathers. Stripes. Freya really stands out in the full-bust market for its sometimes completely bonkers prints (I mostly mean that as a compliment). While it’s really lovely to have elegant, luxurious lingerie in your drawer, sometimes it’s also nice to inject a little fun into the mix. I will always love polka dots, and I LOVED the Nieve print (which sort of kills me, because I found the fit in both the balconette and the longline bras to be pretty strange (more later)). There’s a nice playfulness to some of the prints, and a charming sensuality to others.

Freya Prints: Nieve (longline), Tabitha (balconette), Carly (molded plunge)

Does Freya have it all? Well . . . they have a lot! I think branching into shapewear for Spring 2013 was a really smart decision, given that shapewear’s surging popularity shows no signs of stopping. I hope Freya listen to feedback and continue to expand their size ranges, as there are currently lots of ladies falling into the gaps. There are sometimes baffling fit inconsistencies that make shopping online a real pain. In the last year or two it seems like Freya’s bands have gotten much, much stretchier, and sometimes the cups have too. I have the balconette version of the Nieve in what is, for me, a pretty average size, and I’ve worn it a few times, but it has stretched so quickly I’m already wearing it on the tightest hooks, and the cups are bizarrely unsupportive and droopy. I almost feel like I should have gone down 1 band size and up 2 cup sizes, a fit adjustment that is impossible to anticipate and which most likely means an online shopper will have to pay shipping and returns. The “Faye” style is very popular as a basic bra, but I have yet to find the right fit on me. I find the band somehow loose and tight all at once, the cups are shallow, and the fabric feels flimsy to me. However, these complaints might be specific to my body type, and maybe to a women with firmer tissue or differently shaped breasts, Freya’s recent design changes are a breath of fresh air. Freya’s wires tend to run narrower than Panache’s, which are notoriously wide, so Freya bras in general might suit some women better than others. Finally, many of Freya’s unlined bras give a kind of retro pointy shape, which can be either really appealing or a huge turn-off, depending on your preferences. I’m not a fan of the shape for me personally, but I have found that the silhouette tends to soften to a more natural look after a few wearings, almost like I have to break it in first.

While I don’t think Freya will ever be everything to any one specific customer, I do think Freya has a little something to offer a wide range of women, no matter her age, shape, or style.

Have you tried Freya? Do you have a favorite style? I’ve mostly featured past styles, but if you want a sneak peek of Spring/Summer 2013 (and the chance to preorder anything that catches your eye), check out A Sophisticated Pair’s preview of some of the beautiful styles to come!

Virtual Bra Fitting: Butterfly Collection

Posted on August 4, 2012 by Sweets

Claire Dumican, the owner of Butterfly Collection, an online lingerie shop based in Canada, and creator of the amazing cup size comparison chart I highlighted a while ago, recently posted a really beautiful article on her blog about the shop’s Skype bra-fitting services.

I have to admit, when I first heard about the service, I was intrigued but also perplexed. If you were wearing the wrong size, how could the fitter determine the correct fit via Skype without a range of sizes on hand for the customer to try on in person? How could a fitting by Skype possibly be better than an in-person fitting?

“Lottie” bra by Curvy Kate at Butterfly Collection

I’m embarrassed to say that this is the kind of tunnel-vision people in New York get (rightly) blamed for all the time. I am fortunate to have many boutiques and shops available to me in the city itself, and shipping something to New York City isn’t a problem for most international retailers. I’m able-bodied and childless, so there’s nothing preventing me from skipping down to the subway after work and traveling an hour if there’s a shop I want to visit in another borough. I’m also internet-savvy and have the time and resources to dedicate to online research to find what I need. It’s beyond presumptuous of me to assume that all women enjoy the same conveniences of location, availability, and resources that I do. Continue reading →

Beating the Heat: All-or-Mostly Cotton Bras

Posted on June 20, 2012 by Sweets

I got a request from a dear friend for an all-or-mostly-cotton shopping guide, and seriously, could the timing be any better? In four days New York has gone from 65 degrees to 95, and the city is just one giant concrete-and-skyscraper heat-trapping hell-hole. Sometimes. Not always. But I am not alone in wishing that more subway-riders took up deodorant.

SORRY. Where was I? Cotton. Cool, lovely, breathable cotton, the fabric of our lives, but not, so often, of our bras. Particularly once you break out of the standard sixteen sizes (32-38 A-D), unlined mostly-cotton bras are few and far between. Cotton doesn’t always give the same supportive-yet-stretchy fit synthetics do, it can be trickier to fit perfectly, and then to top it off cotton prices have risen dramatically in the last few years. We just don’t have as many options. Bravissimo used to stock a bra that was a beautiful cotton eyelet, but the brand (Faubourg) seems to have stalled, and I’ve only seen swimsuits from them this year. There are a few sizes of the cotton bra left in the sale section.

Calvin Klein and some other department store staples seems to stock a regular supply of cotton bras, but they also tend to be padded or molded, thus defeating the heat-relief-seeking purpose. Otherwise, cotton and natural fibers show up primarily in maternity wear, wire-free bras, and bralettes. Bralettes are awesome (see Sandmaiden Sleepwear on Etsy for more pretty, natural-fiber choices), but finding full-bust and full-figure options that are also cute or stylish can be a challenge. Continue reading →

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