Sweet Nothing Du Jour: 4/11/13

I’m sorry y’all.  This is a super boring one.  It’s so boring.  I know, I know, my goal in life is to bring you the pretty things, but hello, my name is Sweets, I am wearing boring knickers today, and they feel INCREDIBLE:

Maxi brief by Sloggi, multipack.  Super hot, no?

Maxi brief by Sloggi, multipack. Available in sizes 10-26 (UK).  Super hot, no?

Okay, look, hear me out.

I have this awesome dress, see?

Drape Jersey Dress.  Available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy (some sizes sold out).  £55.00 (about $88.09 USD)

Drape Jersey Dress by Pepperberry. Available in sizes 08-18 (UK) Curvy/Really Curvy and Really Curvy/Super Curvy (some sizes sold out). £55.00 (about $88.09 USD)

It fits my boobs, falls to my knees, hugs my waist, repels cat fur, and makes me feel super glamorous.  I wear a scarf with it at the office and whip my cleavage out afterwards.  It rules.  The other thing it does is caress my tush without also caressing my belly.  I love this, because it makes me look like I actually HAVE a tush, but all of a sudden my knickers are really in the spotlight.  I’ve tried all the briefs I own.  I’ve tried the really uncomfortable shapewear shorts that I hate wearing.  I’ve tried thongs, but my feelings on thongs remain unchanged (newbies: thongs are the worst and I hate them).  Tights help somewhat, but tights are slinky, and the dress is slinky, and tights make the dress’s lining ride up around my waist by the time I get to work.  I don’t get THAT bent out of shape about visible panty lines, because I have other things I’d rather worry about, but in this case I really did want to find a comfortable solution.

Enter the giant cotton knickers above.  The rise is high enough to sit right at my belly button and lie smoothly over my hips, the leg line is low enough that panty lines aren’t an issue, they’re black so they go with all my bras, and they’re cotton, so the dress’s lining stays put.  Frankly, they’re comfy as hell.  They’re SO comfy.  I’m not switching to giant knickers exclusively, but I’m really, really glad I’ve added these to my rotation of bikini briefs and shorties.  For the gym, for slinky dresses, and for certain times of the month, these are going to become my go-to.

Available in a 3-pack from Figleaves, which is currently running a 20% off full-price items Spring promotion with the code ‘TWENTY ’.  There are a TON of gorgeous Spring lingerie and swim styles hitting the site.  There are also boring giant cotton knickers.  Have at it.

Beating the Heat: All-or-Mostly Cotton Bras

I got a request from a dear friend for an all-or-mostly-cotton shopping guide, and seriously, could the timing be any better?  In four days New York has gone from 65 degrees to 95, and the city is just one giant concrete-and-skyscraper heat-trapping hell-hole.  Sometimes.  Not always.  But I am not alone in wishing that more subway-riders took up deodorant.

SORRY.  Where was I?  Cotton.  Cool, lovely, breathable cotton, the fabric of our lives, but not, so often, of our bras.  Particularly once you break out of the standard sixteen sizes (32-38 A-D), unlined mostly-cotton bras are few and far between.  Cotton doesn’t always give the same supportive-yet-stretchy fit synthetics do, it can be trickier to fit perfectly, and then to top it off cotton prices have risen dramatically in the last few years.  We just don’t have as many options.  Bravissimo used to stock a bra that was a beautiful cotton eyelet, but the brand (Faubourg) seems to have stalled, and I’ve only seen swimsuits from them this year.  There are a few sizes of the cotton bra left in the sale section.

Calvin Klein and some other department store staples seems to stock a regular supply of cotton bras, but they also tend to be padded or molded, thus defeating the heat-relief-seeking purpose.  Otherwise, cotton and natural fibers show up primarily in maternity wear, wire-free bras, and bralettes.  Bralettes are awesome (see Sandmaiden Sleepwear on Etsy for more pretty, natural-fiber choices), but finding full-bust and full-figure options that are also cute or stylish can be a challenge. Continue reading

Building Your Personal Lingerie Wardrobe – Bargain Hunter’s Edition

Loyal Reader Lady Mary asked me if I had any bargain hunting tips.  Look, we all know how important our bras are, especially once we find the right size, because then we realize how fabulous we look and feel, and then we want all the bras ever.  We know we should keep our lingerie wardrobe in tip-top shape.  Trouble is, underthings are not cheap.  They shouldn’t be, because you’ll wear them every day and you want them built to last, but still.  Some of us have bills to pay and cat food to buy, so what do you do when your wallet is pinched, and that beloved bra finally wears out, or your size changes, as it is wont to do?

Quick shout-out to Treacle at The Lingerie Addict, who posts some great and truly comprehensive round-ups of online and in-store discounts and sales on a weekly basis.  She covers everything from online sample sales to small independent labels.  (Also, y’all should read her blog.  It’s awesome)

Brief broken-record mention of Bravissimo, where full-bust customers can occasionally find a good bargain in the sale section, especially if the currency conversion works in your favor (cough not lately cough).

Otherwise, I’ve had great success here:

eBay

Yes, eBay!  I promise, it’s not that weird buying your underwear/swimwear here.  Most lingerie sellers on eBay aren’t re-selling previously worn items, but are instead selling out-of-season or overstock styles.  In the past I’ve had great luck entering [Brand name]+[bra size] in the search box and seeing what comes up.  Make sure you look at your international search results as well.  I’ve gotten some lovely bras that were originally $50-60 for around 50% off, even with shipping from the UK, and you can frequently track down the matching accessories for a steal as well.  Obviously, the caveat here is that you most likely won’t be able to return.  But if you have a beloved favorite that’s finally worn out, or you want a new color of a style you’ve worn before, it’s a pretty safe bet for a great deal.  As always with eBay, check the seller’s profile and feedback, check their shipping rates, and read the description carefully to avoid any heartache.

Figleaves

Figleaves not only carries their in-house lingerie, swim, maternity, and nightwear lines– Midnight Grace, Just Peachy, Sophina, and Figleaves Intimates (sizes range from 32A-38D, 30D-38G), all of which carry price tags on the lower end of mid-range ($27-50 per bra), but they also consistently run seasonal sales, individual brand promotions, online customer discounts, and a year-round “Designer Outlet”, where out-of-season styles linger, just waiting for buyers.  I once got a sassy red bra-and-underwear set for around $16.  Figleaves is also easy to shop, as there is a dedicated mail center in the U.S., so you never have to worry about high shipping fees or customs/duties, but you can still purchase your favorite UK designers.  I tend to “window shop” online, by which I mean I’ll log in to the site, add a bunch of things that catch my eye to my shopping cart, and return at a later date to decide if I want to buy anything.  Figleaves has taken to sending me 20% off codes whenever stuff lingers in my shopping basket, in an attempt to seduce me into purchasing.  Well-played, Figleaves, because it usually works.

Rue La La, Gilt, MyHabit, Groupon, etc.

So, look, I get these daily emails, because once in a blue moon I need to buy a wedding present, or I can get a cat bed or something, but most days I just skip them without reading them.  I wear an unusual bra size, an unusual shoe size, and an unusual dress size, so it’s rare that I’m tempted to buy anything for myself.  HOWEVER, for those who do fall into more small-to-average size ranges, some really beautiful, occasionally high-end lingerie pops up for fractions of the original price: La Perla, Kiki de Montparnasse, the Lake and Stars (GREAT for small-bust customers), Hanky Panky, Elle MacPherson, Le Mystère, Cosabella, etc.  Bras, suspenders, ruffled knickers, flowing robes, chemises, the works.  If your brand shows up on one of these sites, you can be in for huge savings.  In addition, local lingerie shops sometimes use Groupon and other city-centered deal sites, so it can be a good idea to monitor those as well.  Townshop in New York City had a deal on Groupon once that was something like $50 for $100 worth of lingerie and swimwear.  Constant vigilence!

Amazon

I still remember when Amazon mostly meant books.  Now I get my Cherry M&Ms fix from them.  You can find ANYTHING on Amazon.  As with eBay I just enter [Brand name] + [bra size] in the search window.  The nice thing about Amazon is so many department stores and online retailers are vendors there, like Macy’s, Dillard’s, Herroom, BareNecessities, et al., so it’s a bit of a time saver, as you don’t have to scour each store’s website; they’re all collected there for you.  You can occasionally find really good deals on out-of-season styles and colors, and the return policy is usually better than eBay.

In terms of general bargain-hunting, if you find a brand that really suits you and consistently stocks your size, it’s a good idea to keep on eye on the seasons.  It’s tempting to buy new styles as they come out because they are pretty and shiny and new, but you should probably keep an eye instead on the styles from 6 months ago, which are more likely to go on sale to make way for the upcoming season.  Even googling a brand and style name + your bra size can uncover some great online stockists who might be clearing out inventory.  Always use a bit of reasonable caution online, check return policies and shipping costs, and ensure you have a secure connection before entering any payment information.

Finally, go local!  It takes some work, it’s true, but investigate shops in your area.  If you find a store you like that offers good fittings, it can’t hurt to ask them about seasonal sales.  Get on a mailing list or stop by occasionally.  There’s a good chance you’ll stumble across some great bras that have been marked down to clear out old stock.

Readers, a lot of y’all are proving yourselves incredibly knowledgeable about good fit, and also about what styles you like!  Any one have any tricks of the trade to share?

UPDATE: I knew I’d forget things: 

1) Stores like Loehmann’s, Century21, Filene’s Basement, and Nordstrom Rack frequently have some excellent finds in their lingerie departments, even some full-bust lines (although rarely). 

2) Asos:  Asos is still fairly new to the US, and they list their bra sizes weirdly, especially if you know your UK size, so it takes some figuring out.  But there are some great finds on mid-price to high-end lingerie, and they offer free shipping and free returns all the time.